Stop torturing yourself– who knows why someone is not emotionally available? It’s not your problem to fix. Natalie Lue, who is the author of “Mr. Unavailable & the Fallback Girl” sums it all up so perfectly in this video. Gosh, I wish I’d seen this video 8 years ago!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pGTv4yPaLaY&feature=player_embedded